Sunday, March 26, 2023

3-5-23 Where You Go I Will Go - Annual Meeting Reflection

 Presented at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Brevard at our Annual Meeting

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSDwFmVfClE

Where you go I will go, Annual Meeting Reflection.


“Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. 

Your people will be my people and your God my God”.  


These are the words from the Bible book of Ruth.  

It tells the story of two Moabite women, Orpah and Ruth.  

They were married to the sons of Naomi.  Now in a 

short time Naomi’s husband and both her sons passed away, 

leaving the women alone.  Being widowed and 

alone she planned to return to the land of Judah.  

She encouraged both her daughters in law (now widowed) 

to return to their ancestral home and their people. 

Orpah chooses to return home, but Ruth chooses 

her mother in law as her family.   


“Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. 

Your people will be my people and your God my God”.  


Now there are many themes and inspirations 

we can find in the book of Ruth.  Love, Devotion, 

faith and family.  To me, this is the story of a 

chosen family.  Naomi in the story encourages 

Ruth to return to her family.  She can not give Ruth 

a husband or the stability that she would have 

among her own people, yet Ruth chooses love 

over her ancestral ties.  Ruth works in the field 

and cares for her mother in law.   And in the story 

Ruth is rewarded by God for her hard work and 

devotion to Naomi with a family, husband 

and prosperity.  


This community is a chosen family.  Like so 

many in our community, we seek people beyond 

our familiar ties. People who share our values,

 and accept us for who we are, our whole selves. 

Looking through our historical documents, 

I came across this (History of Unitarian 

Universalist Fellowship of Melbourne 

Florida 1956 -1974).


It reads:

“Our congregation is a fellowship of people 

who encourage and help one another to 

explore the vital questions of life and mutually 

support values that would lead to a meaningful 

life for all people”.  


Our chosen family was formed in February 

and March of 1956.  Jim Hopper, a Unitarian 

from Wellesley Hills Massachusetts, started 

us as the first Unitarian meeting in Brevard 

county. They started in the trailer of Margaret 

and Cyril Nute in Canova Beach, gaining 

interest from those moving to the area for 

the newly formed space program.  In the early 

years they met in several places, including 

members' homes, the Eau Gallie YMCA, 

Florida Tech, and the Melbourne Civic Theater.  


This document goes into some of the speakers 

and group activities shared with the early members, 

and I would invite people to read through it and 

see some of our legacy in this community.  

We went through many ups and downs, and 

according to records almost disappeared in the 

early 70’s.  But like Ruth, through our faith and 

devotion to one another, we found a way in this 

community to continue and thrive.  

In 1973, through the generous pledges of 

our members, we began over the summer 

the process of building on this beautiful piece 

of land we sit on today.  


From the words of our members:


Dr William Mather said at October 7th meeting 

in 1973

“The long silence of the summer does not 

mean that we have all been loafing.  

To the contrary, we can now announce the 

first general meeting of the fellowship.”


Bill Newcomb (Building Committee Chair) 

and Ralph Moorhouse (Finance Committee Chair) 

“finally got a roof over our heads and floors 

beneath our feet, and to them we all say 

Thanks again and again.  Where once the 

Bedford horses grazed and the palmetto scrub 

flourished, we now have a place for our 

deeper fellowship.” 


And we are grateful for those who helped create 

our legacy, and move us into this deeper fellowship.  

So what were the goals of this fellowship in 1974.  

In the words of Dr William Mather:


“We must be more completely oriented to the needs 

of our neighborhood, our town, our county, state 

and ultimately all humanity.  It will not be enough, 

through the next 5 years to meet together just to 

enjoy each other’s company or to get an emotional thrill.  

There is work to be done in this world, by Unitarians”.


And so may these be our goals in our 21st century 

chosen family.  May we like Ruth, choose love, 

choose to care for one another.  For your people 

are my people, and where you go I will go.  

May we be each other’s chosen family as we 

do serve our wider community in the spirit of our 

Unitarian Founders.


So may it be. 


 

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