Sunday, August 23, 2020

Inherent Worth and Dignity

 This is a Sermon I gave online to the Unitarian Universalist Church of Brevard on 8/23/20.
(FYI, the extra punctuation and spacing is to remind me to breathe - in general good advice).

 


Inherent Worth and Dignity


Good Morning everyone, My name is Beth Anz, and I am a “normal” 

person... (mostly). I am neither a “good” person, or a “bad” person, 

who I am, is not as simple as that. I may say things you disagree with, 

and often, in this polarized world, if we disagree, we are quick to “cancel” 

and dismiss people we disagree with.  We react in an instant, either 

deifying, or demonizing others, based on a post, a tweet, or a sound byte.  

But opinions don’t exist in a vacuum.  I would invite each of you 

to look further, to seek a dialogue, before you dismiss someone.  


We as Unitarian Universalists, state our First Principle as, 

“The Inherent Worth and Dignity, of Every Person”.  That is more 

difficult than it seems on the surface. Not “Every Person” is 

easy to care for, and see their worth; particularly, when those 

individuals, act in ways that are contrary, to our values and beliefs. 

We prefer insults, to discourse, and we fear that if we engage, 

we risk also being attacked.  


What I want to discuss today, is the dangers, of creating 

Monsters, or Saints, in society, creating an “other” and 

dehumanizing each other.  The dangers of inaction, 

or acceptance of these behaviors.  Much of our discourse 

runs around this dehumanization, and the concept isn’t new. 


Several years ago, I read a book called, 

“The Lucifer Effect: Understanding How Good People, Turn Evil”.  

The Book is by Philip Zimbardo, and goes into depth 

about his famous “Stanford Prison Experiment”, and it’s 

real world parallels.  Many of you have probably heard of this 

experiment, but here’s a quick, synopsis.  In 1971, 

Professor Zimbardo recruited College students to be randomly 

assigned, as either “guards” or “prisoners”.  The Prisoners were 

mock “arrested”, booked and placed in a mock “prison”, built in 

the basement of the Stanford Psychology building.  Each 

participant was pre-screened for any underlying psychological 

issues, to ensure they were as quote, as “normal” as possible.  


The “guards”, were given an orientation and instructed to 

“control” the prisoners, but NOT to harm them.  Zimbardo, 

who played the Prison superintendent, gave these instructions to 

the guards: "You can create in the prisoners feelings of boredom, 

a sense of fear to some degree, you can create a notion 

of arbitrariness, that their life, is totally controlled by us, 

by the system, you, me, and they'll have no privacy ... 

We're going to take away their individuality, in various ways. 

In general what all this leads to is a sense of powerlessness. 

That is, in this situation, we'll have all the power, and 

they'll have none."


Those familiar with the experiment, will know that it quickly 

devolved, as the participants fell into their “roles”.  Guards, 

who were instructed to call prisoners, by their numbers only, 

quickly internalized their roles, and throughout the week, 

enacted several acts of abuse, and dehumanization.  The 

prisoners started to see themselves as their numbers, and went 

along with it, for fear of being singled out.  


By day 2 the prisoners rebelled, the guards pushed back, 

giving privileges to those who complied with the rules, and 

denied rights, such as beds and toilet privileges to those who 

didn’t.  Sanitation quickly devolved, harassment escalated, 

particularly during the “daily counts”, and both the prisoners 

and guards became psychologically institutionalized in their roles. 

This experiment which was supposed to last 2 weeks, was shut down 

after 6 days. Because Professor Zimbardo was also ingrained 

in his role as the Prison Superintendent, It took an associate of his, 

pointing out the abuse to shut it down.  Everyone had lost perspective 

and accepted their roles, fully. 


Philip Zimbardo was quoted many years later, saying

 - "I had been conducting research for some years, on 

deindividuation, vandalism and dehumanization, that illustrated 

the ease with which ordinary people could be led to engage, 

in antisocial acts, by putting them in situations where they felt 

anonymous, or they could perceive of others in ways 

that made them less than human, as enemies or objects," 


This “less than human” mindset is how the experiment 

encouraged such abuse.  They created a system of power, 

where the prison guards dehumanized the prisoners, by only 

using their numbers, not their names.  They created an institution 

of authority, the prison system.  They gave them uniforms/ to 

create unity, and anonymity, they encouraged them to use their 

power, to keep order; and allowed abuse to go unchallenged, 

creating an escalation, and indifference to that abuse.  

All these things, according to Professor Zimbardo, are a recipe for evil.


He admitted in later interviews, that he should have shut down 

the experiment, much sooner, but allowed the abuse to continue, 

because he himself, became part of the experiment, and part of 

that group mindset.  In effect, Professor Zimbardo used the power 

of his prison system, to encourage dehumanization, and 

allowed the prisoners to become an “other”. 


When I say an “other”, what I mean is collectively declaring a group 

of people, as “less than”, to exert control and power over them, 

separating “us” from “them” by some dehumanizing 

characteristics. The Stanford Prison Experiment is not unique in its tactics.  

Professor Zimbardo went further in his book, and showed 

real world examples of his mock “prison”, the most prominent 

being the Abu Grahib prison torture in 2004.  

He highlights the similarities, between the real world torture 

of Iraqi prisoners, and his “mock” Stanford prison, showing, 

image for image, replicas of prisoner torture.  


Again, these people were not inherently evil, they were 

not “bad apples”, they were average, “normal” soldiers.  

The Abu Ghraib soldiers were pressured to “soften” these 

prisoners up for interrogation, without much oversight, much 

like the Stanford prison guards were pressured to keep order.  

But according to Professor Zimbardo, it is not just “bad apples”

in these cases, we have to look beyond the individual, at the 

situation, and the system (or the “bad barrel”, and the “bad barrel makers”).  

In all these cases, you need to find where the Power is.  

Power, without oversight, opens the door to abuse.  This does not 

excuse the abuse, but it allows us to understand how 

“good people”, can do “terrible things”.


History is filled with examples, of leaders using their power, 

and control, to create the dehumanization of “others”.  The United States, 

and many other colonial countries, dehumanized, and controlled, 

the native or captive populations, promoting racism,

and a sense of their own superiority.  During Reconstruction, 

the former plantation owners of the South, used Jim Crow Laws and other 

tactics not only, to control former black slaves, but also to prevent, 

poor White farmers, from joining with the newly freed, poor Black farmers 

after the end of slavery.  In World War two, Hitler convinced the 

downtrodden, German People, that they were superior, 

while committing atrocities to “others”, most predominantly the Jewish People.  

But during that same time, the US put their own German, and 

Japanese citizens in camps, without any cause, simply out of fear.  


Now those are extreme examples, of how we use the 

“other” to accept atrocities, but all extremes start small.  

Professor Zimbardo illustrates this, with Milgram’s famous 

1963 Shock experiment, which looks at people’s obedience to authority, 

or how Milgram looked at it, “could the holocaust happen here”?


Quote “Ordinary”, volunteers, were asked as the “teacher” to 

teach a “learner” a series of words to study memory.  When the 

“learner” gets it wrong the “teacher” is instructed to give the “learner” 

a shock.  For this experiment, Milgrim made the volunteer “teacher”, 

think that both the “teacher” and “learner” were volunteers, 

but unknown to our volunteer, the “learner”, was actually one 

of the researchers.  


The volunteer sees the “leaner”, strapped into the shock machine 

that they will control with a dial, but during the experiment they can not 

see them, they only hear them from the other room.  The experimenter 

(our authority figure) would instruct the “teacher” to increase 

the shock every time the “learner” got the words wrong.  


Like all “evil” acts, it started small, with 15 volts, but increases 

by 15 volts for every wrong answer.  On the other side, the person 

getting shocked is begging and pleading as the shocks get worse, 

but the researcher instructs our volunteer, repeatedly, that they must 

continue.  Since the “teacher” volunteer does not know the “learner” 

is pretending, they think they are hurting this individual.  


The theory was that Nazi’s, were inherently predisposed to evil 

and authority, and that “Ordinary” people, would not continue to 

increase the voltage, causing great harm.  But the experimenters were 

wrong, very wrong, two-thirds of all the participants went to 

the lethal level of 450 volts.   


Why did they do this?  The simple answer, is Authority, and Obedience, 

but not just to the authority figure, peers as well.  In later experiments, 

Milgram found that if the participant, saw someone go to the lethal level, 

before them, they were more likely to do the same, 

but if the participant saw someone, rebel before them, 

they were more likely to refuse to shock the other volunteer.  


This fear of authority, this pressure to conform, and obey  

institutions, shows how “ordinary”, people are able to do “evil acts”.  

Like in the Stanford prison, they used this fear of being treated like “others”, 

or losing our status, to ensure we go along with it.  The prison abuse, 

started with small things, and grew, as their actions were not challenged.  

In the modern world, we saw it with Muslims after 911, we see it with our 

immigrant communities, with white supremacy, and with minorities and the 

police.  By thinking of people as “other”, or “less than human”, we allow 

ourselves to treat them inhumanely.  When we do not speak up 

for our fellow humans, we allow the abuse of “others”, and we are complicit.  


According to our principles, we believe in the “inherent worth, and dignity, 

of every person”.  It is easy to think that we do, that we would never, be led 

into such behavior, as those in the Stanford Prison Experiment.  

But remember, those “normal”, kids began the experiment 

the same, assigned positions at random, and quickly devolved, into abuse, 

because of the pressure to fulfill an identity.  They were given permission, 

to see their fellow volunteers as an “other”, and therefore 

open to inhumane treatment.  


When people commit acts that go against our values, 

it is easy to demonize them.  But I feel that is where the danger comes in, 

the seed to abusive behavior.  We must remember, that humans, and other 

living creatures are worthy of our compassion.  Human beings, are neither 

all good or all bad, and when we demonize, we fail to see the 

whole person, and what drove their behavior.  At the same token, we 

can not deify a person, if we do, we fail to see any wrong in bad behavior.  

If our favorite celebrity, says something against our values, we have to 

be willing to acknowledge that, and see them as a flawed 

human and not a saint.    

  

In the next few months, we will be seeing plenty of political discourse.  

Politics is perhaps the best example, of our need to deify or demonize 

others, and nowhere is it more prevalent, than in our social, 

and traditional media.  We take sides, we double down, and we hide 

behind anonymous, online personas, insulting  anyone 

who disagrees with us.  


Now everyone knows politicians, who act against their moral values.  

You can, and should speak out, against their behavior, and their policies, 

but I encourage you, not to dismiss them, as inhuman.  

It’s easy to dismiss, and ignore their humanity, but by creating that “other” 

category, we stop the conversation, encourage abuse, 

and dismiss the bad behavior, they inspire in others.  


In several of the cases we discussed today, the “evil acts” 

were stopped, only, when someone spoke up, and intervened.  

It is this heroic act, the act of recognizing, the humanity 

of another, that caused the system to change.  We also saw that 

those, “heroic acts”, also inspired others to further action.  

We glorify those in history, who stand up, and fight for

these inequalities. 


While we usually see these individuals, as exceptional, 

Professor Zimbardo suggests, we see them as ordinary, “normal” people.  

That we develop a “hero mindset”, and teach our children, 

that each one of us is a “hero in waiting”.  Each of us, when we 

see something wrong, has the potential to act, and in turn inspire others, 

to act.  We should understand the evil, of inaction, even for the small things, 

because all “evil” acts, start small.  


We must learn as heroes to speak up, even if no one else does, 

to think not “ego-centrically” but “socio-centrically” for the greater good, 

of all humanity.  In other words - we are the heroes we’ve been waiting for, 

and any act of good, no matter how small can have a larger impact.


If we truly believe in the principle, of the “inherent worth 

and dignity, of every person”, we must acknowledge that those we praise, 

and those we criticise, should still be treated as human. We must 

do the work, and have the hard conversations, even with those we 

disagree with.  We must learn to criticize the behavior, without 

demonizing them.   No one said it would be easy, but principles rarely are.  

So in this polarized world, let's learn civility, and do the work, call 

out bad behavior,  be the heroes we are waiting for, and understand, 

that we are all part of the human race, and that we, are all, worthy.   


Namaste, thank you.

Sunday, July 12, 2020

Welcome to the New World

Welcome to the New World


This is a Sermon I gave online to the Unitarian Universalist Church of Brevard on 7/12/20.
(FYI, the extra punctuation and spacing is to remind me to breathe - in general good advice).


I hear this phrase, over and over again, 

“when we get back to normal”.  


We wonder when things, will go back, to the way they were.  But what does that mean?  What do we mean, when we say, “back to normal”.  What is it, that we are craving, that we are missing, in this abnormal, situation.  


Was, what was, “good”,  good for all of us, or just, some of us?  What can we improve, in this, “New World”?  What do we hold onto, and what do we let, fall back, to history.  What will be our Legacy, to future, generations.  These are the questions, we need to ponder, as we look to the future, and begin to rebuild “This New Normal”.  


So what was good when things were “normal”?  

Our connections, above all, we are social creatures, and our ability to connect, to one another, is vital, to our emotional, well being.  We like community, we crave that connection, with another person.   


Online helps, but it does not fulfill our, tactile need, to be with, each other. We are personal, we like face to face, we like to hug, to share our hopes and our fears with each other, and to find comfort.   


So in this “new normal”, can we meet, with each other, in person?  In some capacity yes, yes we can, but we need to be smart.  It will not be, “like it was”, for some time. Our connections, for a while, will be smaller, more intimate, more individual.  


And that’s not necessarily, a bad thing.  If we wear our masks, if we maintain small groups, and more intimate connections, if we keep our distance, we can come together.  Just, in a different form. 


Along with connections, is our need for community.  We support each other, in so many ways.  Caring for our community, also starts small.  It starts with the little acts, like wearing your mask, and keeping your distance, when possible, helping the most vulnerable, get groceries, supporting local businesses, calling others, and checking in with each other.  


It is strange that in this time, the best way to support each other, has been to be away, from each other.  But that will never, be enough.  We need each other.  We will always, need each other.  


We also need, a greater support system, that goes beyond our personal, connections.  We look to support the less than fortunate, and those who have hit hard times, during this pandemic, through community organizations, and charities, that are doing good.  Many of these organizations, are part of the good, we should carry with us.  


It can be a challenge, to find ways to support, when you have to limit where you go.  Some of the ways we helped each other before, just don’t work in, “The New Normal”, so it is up to us, to come up with new, and innovative ways, to support each other.   


So ,Was, what was “Normal”, always, Good?  Was “normal” always, Fair, was “normal” always, Just?  These are the questions, we need to ask, as we build this, new world.  Covid, has broken down the system, and left it exposed. We can, no longer hide, behind the norms of society, and the status quo.  


The system, has built in racism, built in sexism, built in economic disparities, and these things, we must work, to relegate, to the past. This breakdown, and rebuilding, should be part of our “New Normal”. 


Our “New World”, after Covid, started in a mix of fear, complacency, and misinformation.  It is emerging, in Protest, in Action, and in Revolution.  When we rebuild this world, we can not accept, the status quo, that clearly, failed us in our times of need.  


Millions around the country, and the world suffered, without financial support.  Aid was slow, the public support, was inadequate, and the relief did not find its way, to all of those in need. 


We can not, bring with us, the inequalities, that have followed us, from the founding, of our country, we need to do better, we need to build, a “new world”, to be truly, equal.  We need to make sure, that all of us have those, unalienable, Rights.


Like many, I recently watched, the Musical Hamilton.  I find it an apt analogy, of privilege, that a musical, which was once only available to view through a high priced ticket or a lottery system, is now available to the masses, 

(for the low price of Disney Plus and, a decent internet connection).  And was only released, now, because, of the pandemic.  Now the masses can enjoy seeing the revolution, through a reimagining, of diverse casting and modern musical stylings.  


And that’s what this conversation is about, access, and privilege.  Helping our community to be more than tolerated, more than equal.  Equality assumes, we are all starting at the same place, we are not.  


We must work for all of us to be, equitable, understanding, that greater opportunities, are needed, for those who are poor, who are black, brown, or indegenous, just to get them, to the same starting line.  


We must, first see, the status quo that was accepted, in what used to be “normal”.  We must acknowledge that Black lives matter, Brown Lives Matter, Immigrants matter, indegenous peoples, matter, LGTBQ+ people, matter, and that we, as a society, have not treated them as such.   


Now Hamilton’s Founding Fathers, were by no means perfect.  They were, slave owners.  Their constitution, counted slaves, as three fifths, of a citizen.  The words, "All men are created equal", do not mean what they say, and leave out, a sizable, portion of the American, population.  


Most of the population, was considered “less than”, and the system, built by them, has been slow to change, since our founding.  Like much of history, we put them on a pedestal, forget their transgressions ,and gloss over any blemishes, in their character.  


But most of our history books, could use an update.  Even with all these faults, they still gave, a set of ideals, beyond their own failings, to strive towards.  


Today’s revolutionary, sentiment, comes not from an outside oppressor, but an internal one.  We as a nation, as a government, have created the system, and a dialogue, that oppresses, people of color, and indegenious peoples.


We have done this for so long, most of us don’t recognize it.  Especially those of us who are not, personally, oppressed by it.  


But in the internet age, it is hard to ignore, these inequalities, and easier, to understand.  The internet, is a great equalizer, where all voices are heard, and the narrative, is not controlled.  Raw data such as the internet, can be harmful, but it can also be, transformative.  


I hear people ask, “why is this happening, all of a sudden”.  To oppressed peoples, there is nothing, sudden, about it.  When the world got quiet, the rest of us just started to take notice.


So what is, our, “new normal”? 

It's the good things.  Our love, for one another, our hopes, our compassion, our humanity.  But it also, needs to be, our equality, our equity, our justice, the true promise, of America.  


Some day, we will all, be able, to take our masks off, to sit together, and enjoy each other’s company, without fear or distance.  Someday, we will venture, out into the world, into our communities, in large numbers, and celebrate life’s moments, and milestones.  


And someday I believe, we will fulfill, the promise, of this country, that all of us, are created equal, in our free, and just, society.  


But in the meantime, I am going to use my voice, to work on those things we need, to leave behind.  I am going to use my voice, to speak for those, who are not being heard. 


I am going to use my voice, and my time, where it is needed, to build a better,  just, and more, equitable, society. This “new world”, should be our Legacy, to future generations. 


When we emerge into, “the new normal”, I want to create a world, that understands the inherent dignity, of every person, and a true, justice for all, and I believe, together, that we can.  


To quote the creator of Hamilton - Lin-Manuel Miranda “What is a Legacy?, It's planting seeds in a garden, you never get to see”.  And my wish for each of us, is that we all, plant our seeds for this, “new world” so we can, ALL, blossom together.


Namaste.